It wasn’t until a year and a half later, that I experienced my first full body; multiple orgasms…
At the time, I was attending the Instructor training at Grand Master Chia’s retreat center in Thailand. I had prepared myself physically, mentally, and spiritually for a year and a half; training every day and cultivating my practice. I felt strong, grounded, and ready for the training. My energy was flowing and the meridians (energy Channels) in my body were open.
Please note that Healing Love is just one component of the Taoist Practices. The purpose is to cultivate, refine, and circulate energy that can be stored or used for healing. Healing Love should not be confused with Red Tantra. During class, one works on his/her own energy, and there is no sexual contact. The Taoist Meditations, Iron Shirt Chi Kung, and Tao Yin Yoga should be mastered before practicing Healing Love.
Around this time, I had met a woman. My heart was open, and we shared a special connection. It was during this time, that I first practiced Healing Love with a partner, and experienced my first full body orgasm.
I felt a surge of orgasmic energy rushing like a wild river from my sexual center, up my back, and reverberating throughout my entire body. My whole body was shaking and releasing for several minutes, but it seemed much longer. I was almost a little embarrassed because my body felt so out of control. The intense sensations of orgasm that I usually felt only in the genital area were surging through my whole body, and it felt as if every cell in my body was vibrating in orgasmic ecstasy. It may sound funny, but I felt that I finally understood what a woman’s orgasm feels like.
I thought at that moment, that I had experienced the pinnacle of my sexual experience, but as I continued to practice Healing Love, I began to experience more and more when it came to sex.
When we learn the Microcosmic Orbit Meditation, also known as the Small Heavenly Circle, we learn to circulate chi or energy in the meridian (energy channel) that runs up the back to the crown of the head, and down the midline of the body. The energy can be circulated in this orbit, much like a circuit. With the Healing Love practice, we learn to circulate sexual energy through this orbit at first in our own energetic system. And after becoming adept at the practice, one can practice with a partner. When practicing with a partner, this is called Dual Cultivation.
With Dual Cultivation, we can circulate orgasmic energy in our own energetic system, and send this refined energy into our partners orbit. It is through this exchange of energy that we offer our energy to our partner, so that they may balance the energy in their own body, circulate and refine it, and use it for Healing.
This in my opinion is the most amazing part of the Healing Love practice. Although it may sound “esoteric”, experiencing orgasm in this way is very real and accessible for everyone. There are no secrets. Grand Master Mantak Chia has shared this information openly to the public for over 30 years, and now I offer my experience to you.